Restoring Lisa’s Trust
- Mark’s ongoing assurance that he wanted to end the affair, and would remain committed to her
- His agreement to break all contact with Samantha, getting Lisa’s participation in writing an email to send to her
- To be given full access to Mark’s phone and passwords, with no hidden devices or accounts
- To be able to ask any questions she wanted about the affair
- To be informed immediately if Samantha contacted Mark outside necessary work communications
Restoring Financial Trust
- The couple would formulate a plan to restore some of the money Mark had spent
- Mark was to create generous acts and experiences for Lisa’s benefit, to make up for his generosity to Samantha
- They would review their bank statements and credit card bills together, and Mark would answer any questions Lisa had about his spending
